September 16, 2025

I write this blog with a devilish plan - Ella and I have a kitten now. If you want to hear about him and see cute kitty pictures, I am holding your attention span hostage until the end.
 


So, let's begin with travel stuff! Life is pretty good here in BKK. Ella and I went to the National Museum and Siam Museum. I had only been to the National Museum once before, actually just the 2nd day I arrived in Bangkok. It's been remodeled, which is good I think, because I remember it being more like a bunch of warehouses stuck together than a museum. But I still feel it's organized a bit haphazardly, with about a dozen buildings displaying random things with little context. There is some cool stuff, but I feel that the real "national treasures" are in temples or in the ancient capitals. If you're a history buff, it's probably worth it, but also I feel it's a bit expensive (250b) for what it is.


 




The Siam Museum is more interesting I feel, and only 100b (~$3). It's in a beautiful old house, and their main exhibit tries to answer the question "What is Thai-ness?" I love the whimsy, for lack of a better word, they put into this place. They have a model of a school classroom you can poke around in, learn how to make Kha Phrao Moo, or play dress up. And what other museum can you display an old CD-ROM, and say it is used by ancient Thai people as a tail light for elephants? Or have a "wai-ing" Ronald McDonald statue next to a gogo dancer? At the time, they also had an exhibit on childhood toys like Jenga, origami, and even a Famicom. So you can bet I played some Mega Man. Really cool place that is definitely worth your time, and just goes to show how creative Thai people can be.






 

But in other BKK news, some BFFs arrived from Shanghai recently. They went off to India and the UK for a while, before making the big move here, along with their cats. It's great to see them of course, but also just by being here they make this place feel more and more like home. So we've been spending almost every weekend with them, getting them settled, talking about life here, and showing them around some of our haunts. One place we wound up that I didn't expect to go was Lumphini Park. If you've never been, it's downtown in the Silom area, and was the very first place I ever visited in Bangkok, over a decade ago. My hostel was about 5 minutes away from here, and at the time, the entire park was occupied by protesters. These "Yellow Shirts" were Royalists and not fans of the then-current PM, Yingluck Shinawatra. I visited to see what was going on, and they couldn't have been nicer - my first meal in Bangkok was free food and a concert. Not having a single dog in this fight, they won me over pretty quickly. Not two months later, there was a coup, and the new government gave everyone a day off work and threw a party. So yeah, they certainly know how to charm a fellow. Fun times in Lumphini.


Nowadays, it's a far cry from that. It's just a large city park, to escape the hustle and bustle. But actually Lumphini has a bad reputation with the locals, as the ponds and waterways are filled with monitor lizards. They are seen as very bad luck in Thailand, and even their name is perhaps the strongest curse word in the language. To help out with this, years ago the government said they will remove them from the park. There are so many, so even at the time I was living here, I said "Pfft, yeah right." And it turns out that was impossible after all, because they've just given up and embraced them. There are cute monitor lizard signs and statues around, I guess realizing that even if Thais don't like them, tourists really do. I admit they're pretty cool, because they're huge, and fairly harmless unless you're a fish or something. 

That same day we needed to pick up a gift for another friend that was visiting, so we went over to the Jim Thompson Shop nearby. And I need to stop for another story, because if you don't know about Jim Thompson, he's pretty interesting - he worked as a spy for the CIA (then called the OSS) during WWII, loved Thailand, settled here, and revived the Thai silk industry to become the famous institution it is today. He became extremely wealthy, and built a really nice house downtown using traditional architecture with lots of other flair, and now it's a popular museum. At the height of his career, he went on a holiday in Malaysia, whereupon he disappeared without a trace. So there are conspiracy theories abound about what happened to him, but still to do this day, nobody knows. Regardless, his business lives on, with a very fancy showroom, full of very fancy things I could not even imagine buying even if I were very wealthy. We bought a tie, and it is certainly the most I ever have spent or will spend on a tie. But we also got to attend a very fancy dinner, eating things that I would not normally eat myself, such as crab or Cantonese style pig skin. Tasty enough, but I feel I don't have the palate to truly enjoy such things - and I shudder at the thought of how much it probably cost.

But I suppose the real travel story of note is that I popped over to Malaysia for a weekend. Unfortunately I had run out of time to get my visa processed, so I needed to do a visa run. And I might as well take the chance to visit some friends! More Shanghai folk made the move there, and it was lovely to see them again. They were also kind enough to put me up for the night, so I also got to meet their cats (I'm detecting a pattern, here). I only had about 24 hours in Malaysia, but I did walk around downtown Kuala Lumpur to take in some sights. I have been to KL before, so there was nothing that was a must see for me. I did see the Petronas Towers, which I maintain are some of the coolest looking buildings in the world, although you need to go at night to really appreciate them. I also went to Merdeka 118, the 3rd tallest building in the world (after the Burj Khalifa and the Shanghai Tower). It is pretty much finished, but still under construction - but knowing that Malaysian people are, in my experience, the nicest people I've ever met, I thought I'd try asking to see if I could go inside. Yup! The security guard said I could check it out if I promise not to leave the lobby. To be honest, the lobby isn't too notable, but it was still really cool of them to let me in. The outside's pretty though, and well worth the photo. Other than that, I only had about 3 hours to explore, so I just took in some sights, bought some souvenirs, and ate at Uncle Roger's Restaurant - after seeing his Youtube videos for so long, it was nice to see what he considers good fried rice. And yeah, gotta be honest - pretty solid fried rice, 8/10. Although I still think the lady near the canal at Wat Saket makes the best fried rice in the world.


That's about it for travel, so shifting gears to work - Ella's job is going great, so no news there. Mine though... haha. Last time I mentioned I was the Principal of a school, well, no longer. It's a long story that maybe I should not air out in public, so apologies if I'm a bit cagey. But in short, I felt that I had a different vision for how a school should be run. After saying "Well, you'll have to fire me if you want to do that, because I refuse" on a pretty regular basis, they decided to consider that offer. I wasn't fired, in fact, they asked me to stay on as a teacher. But they went ahead and had someone else do the thing I refused to do so that I wouldn't be attached to it. However it involved treating someone unfairly, and I thought there's no reason why they wouldn't do that to me in the future. So maybe best to make my exit. Not one day after, I went to Ella's school to inquire about positions, and it seems there will be something opening in two months. So I guess I have two months to have some "me time", which has involved figuring out my visa situation, but also throwing myself into studying Thai. In the future I'll probably write more about it, but it's pretty rewarding to walk around and finally read signs I've passed by a thousands times without giving a second thought.

And now what everyone is really here for, the cat. If you know anything about Ella, she's been dying to get a cat forever, but we just wanted to be settled somewhere before that happened. Well, settled we are, so we decided to go for it. We went to a shelter called PAWS Bangkok, run by this very lovely person who really dedicates herself into taking care of stray cats around the city. Our little guy was found along with his sister in a car park at only a few months old. Both of them were really shy in the shelter, maybe feeling intimidated by all the other cats there. So they stuck together like glue, however, his sister was adopted about a month ago. Ever since, he's been especially shy and lonely. When we visited, he was hiding as far away from everyone as possible in this donut-shaped tunnel thing. But when we opened it, he instantly went to cuddle with Ella and became a purr factory. We decided to adopt him then, but I went back the next day to grab him after we did some shopping. He was actually due to have his next rabies shot, so straight from the shelter I took him to the vet. I also thought that it's probably best that it's me, so he can vow revenge on only me and not Ella. Overall he did very well, though he very much does not like cars. At red lights he's fine, but when the car is moving, he meows up a storm. But now on solid ground in the apartment he's cool. For now he likes hiding, as expected for such a big change. He will come out, insist on cuddles, and then go disappear somewhere else for a few hours. Actually he is very much a cuddly guy, if you scratch around his face he just melts into a puddle. I know orange cats have a reputation for being dumb, but at least for now he certainly is not. He figured out where his food and litter box were immediately, and has been cautiously exploring the apartment. Anyway, meet Masala. I'm sure you'll be seeing a lot more of him.